Amina Khalef, the Kenyan wife of celebrated Tanzanian singer Ali Kiba has filed for divorce at the Kadhi’s court in Mombasa.
The Standard reports that Amina is demanding monthly upkeep of Sh200,000 plus medical cover for her and her two children.
In documents filed in court, she accuses the Bongo Flavor superstar of adultery and failure to consistently provide for her needs and those of their kids.
“The respondent (Kiba) has made a mockery of their marriage by disrespectfully engaging in public displays of infidelity with various women in total disregard of the petitioner’s feelings,” court documents read.
Amina argues that her efforts to solve their differences have been futile as Kiba has been unresponsive, hence arriving at the conclusion that their marriage is broken beyond repair.
“The marriage is irreversibly severely broken with no chance of being salvaged,” she adds.
Kiba, 33, and Amina, 26, tied the knot in a traditional wedding ceremony held in Mombasa in April 2018 before heading to Dar es Salaam, Tanzania where they held a white wedding a few days later.
In an interview in 2019, Kiba confirmed rumors that Amina had returned to her parent’s home in Mombasa following disagreements.
“It is true that my wife and I have issues, which is normal for any couple. I returned her to her parent’s home. I wanted her to also go back to work, I then traveled to Europe,” Kiba said.
He added: “She had previously told me she wanted to work because she is very educated. When I returned from Europe, she told me she was good and now I can go visit her at any time. I haven’t divorced her yet, but everyone is doing their own thing now. Divorce is not something to be praised or announced to people.”
Going on the assumption that…
Going on the assumption that Ali kiba is a Muslim,I would think that infidelity should not be a big deal so long as he is not neglecting his family.Let me explain.Mohammud their prophet at one time is rumored to have had 11 wives,ranging from six years old to adults.Add that to the sex slaves that were at his disposal…She claims that his support for the family was not consistently.I guess having multiple side chicks would cause such an inconsistency in the follow of provisions…
Well, marriage incompatibility does not only strike the cash strapped and less famous couples.Sciences tells us that we human beings were not designed to be monogamous.So it time we used this knowledge to rethink infidelity.
Certainly, Iam not saying that fidelity would cure marriage problems.Far from that,but it would certainly take a big bite out of many marital problems.Infact half of the problems would be solved since sex and money are the most root cause of these conflicts. My two pennies .
Maxiley do not assume things…
Maxiley do not assume things you do not know about Prophet Muhammad PBUH. What you write is very cheap slander comments. Be careful what you write next time about the Prophet. Get your facts and numbers right.
Is that all? Now put out…
Is that all? Now put out what I said that is not correct.Did Mohammud not marry Aisha when she was 6 years old?
What does Islam’s rules of…
What does Islam’s rules of life say in regards to infidelity? 100 lashes & Stoned to death like all other vices?
Amina Khalef A is a very…
Amina Khalef A is a very noble Muslim women who deserves a real man not a boy like Ali Kiba in her life. Sometimes men make blander in their life that they come to regret later and I think Ali Kiba has made one. I want to consul Amina and tell her that the decision she made to divorce loser Akiba is the best decision she could ever make. Recently we had another loser, Mombasa Governor Hassan Joho, do the same and the result was his ex-wife Madina Giovanni Fazzini becoming my fiancée. Now she sees what a real man is. A man who believes Chivalry is not dead! A who has man has manners, is polite, and considerate. Who is honest and open and true to himself. A man who loves her and will fight for and defend her. A man who is a hard-worker is not spiteful, respects women and shows appreciation of her. A real man is the provider of the family. A man who is strong, physically and mentally, and is never too proud to exhibit strong emotion. This is the man Madina Giovanni Fazzini has gotten in me and it would not have happened if she did not divorce Joho. I love you my soulmate Giovanni. Only death will do us apart!!!
How do women come up with…
How do women come up with these figures?
Ali Kiba should be able to get divorced and take care of his family as per what pertains to Islam.
The only issue here, they were married in KENYA, good thing for Ali because the KENYAN courts can’t enforce any child support with any outrageous figures.
I BELIEVE he will do what’s good for his family.
Another thing is, how did they get to this ? Islam allows a man to marry 4 women as long as you are capable of maintaining them and your children.
Anyway, good luck to them.
Many men think cheating is…
Many men think cheating is okay, Question – how would you feel if your wife is sleeping around and you end up raising other men’s children. And the 200K She’s asking for is too little the way everything is getting expensive.
Nope its not ok. Raising…
Nope its not ok. Raising outgrowers from another man is painful to a real man who can stand on 3 legs. Once covenant is broken its hard to repair. It will take God’s supernatural grace to fix it.
@ Elizabeth,who do this men…
@ Elizabeth,who do this men cheat with? I have yet to see a man who actually admits that cheating is OK. As I said elsewhere, as much as cheating is prevalent in modern societies,I have yet to see a society that condones it.
Depending on what studies/and polls you chose to read,and accept,there is ample evidence that suggests women cheat as much as men.They are just better at doing it,and hiding. Men are kind of clumsy and straight forward so they get caught easily.
You ask,” how would you feel inf your wife is sleeping around…” Well most men would feel very hurt,and betrayed.But you would be foolish and stupid to know it and take it lying down.As for raising someones else’s children, I see alot of men raising other men’s children sired by alpha males that were used for bleeding and now they are in a stable relationship with men with ample resources and will with to share- to support the kids,in the current relationships. Yes some will do the right thing by the innocent children,and some will not.What say you?
FEMINAZIS have high…
FEMINAZIS have high entitlement of money from men hardwork. It will get worse and worse . Don’t trust any , time of your fathers and grandfathers gone.
Duh! ndowa sikuhizi ni…
Duh! ndowa sikuhizi ni ndowano!
Start the talk about prenups is the way to go before tying the nuts. Simply ask him or her what’s you deal in the end of this as a result of pressure from outside or within? if one pretends our love is for real and strong so nothing will over take us – it time to move on
My Akamba brothers and…
My Akamba brothers and sisters have the following very profound proverb:
“Mbaka nzeo yumaa utuini.”
It basically means that, if you want a good cat, it must come from your neighborhood. These days, it is not unusual for people to meet online, fall in love, get married and have children without knowing each other at all.
The institution of marriage is slowly dying. I predict that it will be extinct during the next fifty years.
@ Ndugu Imara Daima, I am…
@ Ndugu Imara Daima, I am with you on this.Change is inevitable. My guess is that people get tired of doing the same thing over and over…
Remember this marriage institution has for along time been dictated by men.They shaped it,modelled it,twisted it and made rules that mainly suited them and largely because they paid the “institution tusion “called DOWERY”,and some spent quite afortune to celebrate the entrance into this institution.
The problem I see now days is that this institution is pretty much tuition- free.And you know what happens when things are cheap,The institution gets cheapened,and thus the certificate.
To muddy the waters, science tells us that we were not designed to be with one person.So ,much like we tinker with our educational system to see which one best serves us,we need to reform this marriage institution the same way. Its obvious that when men and women in the society ” blurr” the social-economic lines, we need to redraw them -make new clear demarcations so that every one can see,and follow the lines…and most importantly agree with the demarcations I will take both men and women in the society to correct this “sinking” ship,or build another one.Days of men ordering women around are long gone. My two pennies.