Jacinta Nzilani, the Kenyan televangelist who confessed she’s gay last week has opened up about her partner and their relationship.
Speaking during an interview with Radio Jambo, Jecinta has disclosed that she’s the ‘man’ in the relationship and she’s deeply in love with her wife.
“I am the man, I control things. We kiss and have sex just like any other couple in a relationship,” she notes.
The 51-year-old city preacher says she loves her wife because she is mature, understanding and is always there for her.
Although she says she’d love to spend the rest of her life with her wife, the mother of three says theirs is not a marriage but just a relationship.
”God gave me someone who I am happy to be with. I love her because she is mature, and she understands me as well. I have been with her for a year and I would love to marry her although we have not discussed it yet. You know it’s a process with the Kenyan constitution, but when the time comes, maybe we will talk about marriage,” she explains.
She also explains that her three children and those of her girlfriend have accepted who they are and embraced them.
”Her two children have accepted me, my daughters too have accepted her,” she notes.
Speaking at the Milimani Law Courts last week, Nzilani revealed that she became gay after mistreatment from her in-laws following the death of her husband.
“I am a widow. I lived with my husband for more than 25 years and then he died. I was treated badly by my in-laws and because of the experience; I decided to live with other women. And I am a lesbian,” She said adding, “I feel comfortable and good with other lesbians.”
When asked whether she thinks homosexuality is Godly, she has quickly quoted John 3:16, saying that God’s love has no barrier since he loves everyone, equally.
God have mercy. God does…
God have mercy. God does not listen to the prayers of the people who have chosen to live in rebellion. Repent from your sinful way of live. The true Church of God is not lead by homosexuals.
Please clarify with God next…
Please clarify with God next time you speak with him regarding who’s prayers He listens to etc. You are an idiot
@Mwangi Kiratu. Read the…
@Mwangi Kiratu. Read the Bible well before you make a fool out of yourself. “God does not listen to those who are determined to offend him by their actions. For example, God told those who claimed to serve him but acted rebelliously: “”Even though you make many prayers, I am not listening; with bloodshed your very hands have become filled.”” (Isaiah 1:15) But if they had changed their ways and “”set matters straight”” with God, he would have listened when they prayed to him.—Isaiah 1:18.”
Off course you are well…
Off course you are well versed with the bible, which I refer to as the goat herder’s encyclopedia. You quote the OT, but I may presume that you don’t agree with everything written in it (if so you are a cafeteria christian), but I may be wrong.
Now tell us, that you have not eaten any of the unclean foods mentioned here. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Leviticus+11&version=NIV.
Nor do you believe that donkeys don’t talk. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers+22%3A28-30&version=NIV
How about the command of Moses to keep the virgins and kill everyone else? What do you suppose the virgins were kept for?…https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers+31%3A17-18&version=KJV. Some have said that they were not kept for immoral purposes, but I would beg to differ.
Read the bible like you would read Shakespeare and all your piety will go away.
@Anos, OT is fulfilled in…
@Anos, OT is fulfilled in the NT…..Matthew 5:17–18…..
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished.
How hard is it to fulfill…
How hard is it to fulfill prophesies, when you are a smart Greek in the 70’s AD in a region craving for a Messiah, you have had hundreds of years where you can reverse engineer prophesies written in Moses, Isaiah, Jeremiah, etc. Do you know who wrote Mark or any of the other Gospels, or even the Epistles? Do you know their source? Have you heard of the Septuagent?
In any case, even if I were to agree with you, didn’t the Nazarene say in Mathew 24:34 That “this generation will not pass until all this things have passed”. Where is that generation and have those ‘things’ passed?
If it makes you happy, to find passages that reinforce your bias, have at it. Just expect to hear back from those who don’t things at face value.
I agree with you Kenya; 100%…
I agree with you Kenya; 100%. Amen!!!?
The Bible mentions several…
The Bible mentions several attitudes and actions that can short-circuit our prayers: sin (see Ps 66:18; Isa 59:2; Jer 14:10–12), disobedience (see Pr 28:9), hypocrisy and insincerity (see Isa 29:13; Mal 1:7–9), wrong motives (see Mt 6:5–6; Lk 18:11–14; Jas 4:3), lack of faith (Heb 11:6; Jas 1:6) and even marital problems (see 1 Pe 3:7)……Proverbs 1:28-29, “Then they will call on me, but I will not answer; They will seek me diligently, but they shall not find me, 29 Because they hated knowledge, And did not choose the fear of the Lord.
Kenya, you quote the Bible…
Kenya, you quote the Bible on those areas that help you condemn the lesbian lady but you have been challenged to explain verses that are in the Bible which the holier than thou Christians conveniently ignore. Why are you responding with verses unrelated to what you are being asked?
@Nani, if you took the time…
@Nani, if you took the time to read those verses you would have seen all the things that will make God not listen to your prayers. Homosexuals will not enter the kingdom of God.
Kenya, you really don’t get…
Kenya, you really don’t get it, do you? The Bible condemns gluttony and touching a woman at that time of the month. Do you observe that as well?
Aii, @Nani do you touch a…
Aii, @Nani do you touch a woman at that time you mentioned above??
Mugikuyu, I shake hands and…
Mugikuyu, I shake hands and hug women without prior confirmation of their cycle status.
You too… What makes you…
You too… What makes you think you will enter heaven condemning others to make yourself feel better? Wewe gaurd the words you type. Your God seems them too as you judge and condemn his children. Hell will freeze over once heaven turns you away?
Nani note that:
Gays and…
Nani note that:
Gays and Lesbians were CONDEMNED in Sodom and Gomorrah (with Consuming fire to Boot).
…and so was the sin of…
…and so was the sin of gluttony. Quit cherry picking boss.
And look… That land…
And look… That land perished yet here we are in 2019 with our beloved gay and lesbian brethren. They are not going anywhere. Get over your foolishness and look at life objectively. People are afraid of what they don’t know. Get to know a person different from your personal prejudices that are inherent. You might like them. Such hate. Hate will not get you to heaven.
According to these verses, I…
According to these verses, I should have been stoned to death, but I did not see Kenya or any other OT followers anywhere doing the work of the lord, yet I worked the Sabbath, so I did what I had to do. Oh my is was so scary! https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Numbers+15%3A32-36&version=NKJV. Basically it snowed and I had to remove the snow from my driveway. Should i have waited for the day after the sabbath to remove the snow so that I may be in the good books of our dictator lord? @ Kenya, would you stone anyone who picks up stick on the Sabbath?
GOD rebukes them Gays and…
GOD rebukes them Gays and Lesbaians; but they do not Listen (because they’re Sunk and Hard headed; UNREPENTANT). No wonder a Bunch of them Lesbians are as UGLy as Nzilani and HANDsome as Anderson of CNN.
*BEAUTIful?Anderson Cooper…
*BEAUTIful?Anderson Cooper of CNN.
Leave mr. Silver hot…
Leave mr. Silver hot Anderson Cooper alone. With all his gayness. My eyes are always peeled. I might go to heaven ha haa since like the rest of these heathen gay shaming others. If I do I will give him my heavenly pass!
Straight people come in all…
Straight people come in all shapes which may appeal or repel as well. Anos and myself have challenged you to confirm that you observe several things in the OT besides cherry picking the homosexual issue. Many forget that the OT was written in the cultural context of the time. The cherry picking of the gay issue will continue to gives us expose closeted gay preachers such as Eddie Long, Ted Haggard and a myriad of Catholic clergy.
You hate filled imbecile. I…
You hate filled imbecile. I rebuke you! You are ugly for saying ugly things.
Who died and appointed you…
Who died and appointed you judge jury and executioner in the name of the God that you worship and bible that you dearly quote. You forget when it rains and shines whether am sinful or a saint it is equal. Stop shaming your God.
You were a lesbian right…
You were a lesbian right from the word go, you never turned lesbian after mistreatment by your in-laws, stop blaming them; take full responsibility Nzilani. Please tell us nothing but the whole truth. How did it begin? Help our girls:))
Shaming much? We all know…
Shaming much? We all know… Where it started. Help our girls? You are an idiot.
@Kijana, She said she chose…
@Kijana, She said she chose to be a homo after the death of her husband. It’s a choice. Stop spinning it around saying she was always a lesbian. You’re putting words in her mouth. People are not born gay/lesbian, it’s a choice they make to be or not to be. People are not born thieves or murderous, they choose to steal, they choose to kill. Now she says she is the “man”. That is a choice again, not how she was born! When you look at this absurdity and realize that the three judges hearing the homo case could not immediately come up with a verdict and that they need more than two months to think about it; one has to conclude that our weak and cowardly judges are waiting for instructions from America and the West. Otherwise they will be banned from visiting abroad and miss out on the bribe. God save Kenya.
I concur with you. And the…
I concur with you. And the West is busy preaching that homosexuality is a born trait. Nope. You choose to live.
Stupid line of thought but…
Stupid line of thought but hey. You are entitled to your two cents
You’re entitled to your…
You’re entitled to your stupidity too, or more than others anyway.
@Mwororo,itake it that you…
@Mwororo,itake it that you are heterosexual.Can you give me a scenario in which a heterosexual like you could turn gay?Iam hererosexual,but I can’t think of any.The thought of drilling another man grosses me…
But I bet you like to stick…
But I bet you like to stick your thing in your woman of choice butthole.. Are you less gay drilling it into a woman and not a man butthole? Many many men prefer butthole entry cause they are tighter than vagina. Get off your high horse. We know who you all are!
Kwenda uko. Can you relate?…
Kwenda uko. Can you relate? Or are you just judging? What do you choose to love?
@Maxiley did you just say…
@Maxiley did you just say drilling another man? ???
Or being drilled…
Or being drilled…
I want to live my life…
I want to live my life respecting the choices that the people around me on a daily basis have chosen to make. And I also expect them to understand/ recognize/ accept me for the choices I’ve made, that way we avoid all the hatred and resentment and we have a basis from where to begin working together as we navigate through life. I also don’t expect anyone to explain why they do what they do. As pertains LGBTQ rights, this is a very sensitive subject. And especially in Kenya where you definitely know that there are people born to be homosexuals, people who were forced to it, maybe through certain circumstances, or by the virtue of the fact that our very school systems encourage it(yes, I heard about homosexuality in my high school years, and the people involved were Always severely punished, and mistreated) and ofcourse there’s that obvious category of people who love the limelight and all the shiny things associated with it and will become homosexual not out of curiosity or as a result of a life experience but they do it just because they’ve never done anything daring in their lives. Most Kenyans live very sheltered lives. Being a “Christian nation” and how Kenyan parents would do anything just to keep their children on some sort of moral standing that mirrors how a “good Christian man or woman” should live and conduct themselves.” (Atleast- when we were growing up- nowadays anything goes). I must admit that even after witnessing the harrowing experiences the “homosexuals” went through in high school, I never really gave thought to the matter or the people involved in it until I started working with a couple of people who identified as homosexual. Then saw two men kissing on a train in Boston then same sex couples, making out in public and raising families and thriving and simply being THEMSELVES and suddenly I was surrounded by a whole community of homosexuals and people whom I began to know and care about. But like the way everything is hyped in the west and the rest of the world in the pastor’s story above, I’d say- live your life the way you want to. And like I say to everyone, you owe nobody an explanation as to how you choose to live your life, and if you’re doing it for the hype, it’s simple, follow the money. Some things become irrelevant when that hypes gone and people have moved on to something else they wanna fight for. Who knows what other rights we are gonna be fighting for in the near future- ?
Do you RESPECT the CHOICES…
Do you RESPECT the CHOICES people Deliberately make to Defile and Kill by spreading AIDS?
Why did you not use…
Why did you not use protection. And by the way… People nowadays don’t die from Aids. Take your meds be mindful and forgive yourself. And others.
Well written
… Wakenya…
Well written
… Wakenya wengi are sheltered and hidden behind their God and bible to use it as ammunition to hurt and take away from others.
Live and let others live. The best they know how. All anyone is looking for is love and acceptance. Ignorance is not bliss.
I’m in LGBTQ community and…
I’m in LGBTQ community and concerned that in the wake of the pending high court petition to legalize it, some members of the public have seized this gold rush. So much funds have poured into the non governmental institutions from the west to spearhead this compaign. So many people/groups have mushroomed claiming that they are homosexuals to claim part of this gold. Some are regit some not. Am left wondering….
No one talks about the true…
No one talks about the true victims in this ‘tragedy’. Her Children. Children learn from the actions of their Parents. What will her children learn from her about relationships, and their own birth? She should either not have turned gay after a normal marriage, or not have had children at all. Doing both of them is selfish.
The bible is black man’s…
The bible is black man’s history before it was white washed and some books like Maccabees, Apocalyps, Jubilee and others were taken out of it. Christianity, bible and religion was brought in Africa using a gun. People died in the struggle to follow the ten commandments. This was to serve the narrative of white supremacy. Now the blacks in the world have woken up to claim their history. What is the place of homosexuality in the bible and the ten commandments? Whose narrative is homosexuality furthering? The west. Those who are buying into it will be lost as God changes the rulership of this world.
Homosexuality was not right then, how can it be right now? It’s not religion, it’s the word of God. Religion changes like fashion. May the word live for ever but man made religion will perish and disappear
Well, isn’t it obvious…
Well, isn’t it obvious nowadays people (and I mean even the staunchest of Christians) have made God and the religion personalized to their specifications. Just like you do your phone or computer. People will listen to preachers who will preach about things they want to hear. Nobody cares about what took place centuries ago or it’s authenticity. It’s the sad reality we live in unfortunately. The only consolation is that God has never ceased to be in control, since the beginning of time. And He is ALWAYS watching and listening. So as a Christian who bears that knowledge in me, I am at peace with the fact that God is the ultimate judge. Whether homosexuals are wrong or evil or whatever label society has for them, my duty as a Christian is to extend the grace, kindness, acceptance, love and understanding that has been so abundantly and exceedingly given to me despite being imperfect.
Look at you all evolved…
Look at you all evolved. Live and let others live.
Kwenda uko!
Kwenda uko!
Maxiley..the way you…
Maxiley..the way you describe getting on or some is really violent…one time you said “mounting” now it’s grilling, dear Lord! Is that how you feel when you are with your missus…I am just gonna “drill her or mount her”! It’s a real turn off sir! I hope you get in turn a right old grinding for the grill you give! Now, that’s a thought to keep Akothee’s legs tightly clasped for eternity!
@Sukari,why do they ask me…
@Sukari,why do they ask me for more and harder?
Sounds like a personal feud…
Sounds like a personal feud but since you all digressed. Open game.
Sukari… Go for your preference let Maxiley live his life on the rougher side. There are people who appreciate his way of grilling drilling. It’s their fancy. As long as it’s not being done to you, what do you care?
@Sukari,iam sugary romantic…
@Sukari,iam sugary romantic.Trust me.More than willing to prove it to you…?
@Sebi, my rapport was…
@Sebi, my rapport was directed at Max..so take your irrelevant you and splash it elsewhere! You got on the wrong bus here. @Max…no Sir, me don’t need any drilling boy! You go and drill off all you like with those who beg for more! Heck, you may stike oil while at it..or twins for that matter. You sure as hell are attracting admirers herein.. e.g Sebi. Sounds he’s got some pent up lava needing some drilling. Hook up boys!
Sukari una makali, calm down…
Sukari una makali, calm down…Don’t insult Maxiley… Huyu Sebi is a female. Drilling/ grilling is right down my alley by a man of my choice. Ha haa! Get off your high horse there missy! Different strokes for different folk. Don’t assume you know my gender nor what my are convictions by my name of choice.
Sukari una makali, calm down…
Sukari una makali, calm down…Don’t insult Maxiley… Huyu Sebi is a female. Drilling/ grilling is right down my alley by a man of my choice. Ha haa! Get off your high horse there missy! Different strokes for different folk. Don’t assume you know my gender nor what my are convictions by my name of choice.
All these hypocrites busy…
All these hypocrites busy hating on gays .. yet they are busy screwing their wives buttholes … kwani what is the difference – si yote inatoa mavi – besides … gays have the cleanest butts coz the it serves 2 roles – removing shit and its also the vagina so they must keep it clean at all times – sio kama ya uhuru, raila, Atwoli, museveni na kadhalika including you and I who simply wipe in a hurry and leave it stinking … trust me – am speaking out of experience – I tasted my first man while in prison and it was as clean and wet as a virgin’s vagina … habari ndiyo hio
Yaaaassss tell these people.
Yaaaassss tell these people.
God’s Word in the Bible is…
God’s Word in the Bible is the truth, whether you agree with it or not. We are given a free will to choose life and death. It’s all in our hands